Hi mate,
Welcome to the club. Glad you like it.
As for your 185,it depends on the extent you wish to go with the modifications. I've got 17" alloys on mine, with a front and rear strut brace. Add to this, Eibach springs and KYB shocks and it transforms the road holding.
A good idea for more power is to either set a budget or a BHP goal. For example, to get around 300BHP I went with an Aussie down pipe to improve air flow(and exhaust noise

), swapped the top mount cooler for an ST205 chargecooler, fitted some colder grade plugs and uprated leads, and a Greddy Profec B Spec II boost controller, not forgetting a fuel cut defender. When this was mapped at Nobles it made 301BHP at 1.1 bar.
This required bigger brakes obviously, so I went for HiSpec 4 pots up front with DS2500 pads all round.
I hope this gives you some ideas, and if you've any questions feel free to ask.
Cheers